Tips to Get Your Kids To Fall In Love With You!
Are you a kid trapped in an adult body? Do you often feel like your kid doesn’t want to hang out with you? Do they roll their eyes when you suggest going somewhere or doing something as a family? Are they more comfortable with their friends than with you? If so, it’s time for some love intervention. You need to make your kid fall in love with you again, and the sooner the better! There’s no magic formula for making this happen, but there are a few tricks that have worked for other parents we know. Here are some tips to help get your kids to fall in love with you all over again.
1.Talk to them about the things they love.
If your kid is itching to share a new idea or project they are working on, let them. Don’t interrupt, don’t interrupt, let them get it out. It’s easy to get caught up in your work or daily chores and miss the signs that your kids need to talk. Remember the days when you were a kid and you needed to just talk and talk about your latest project or idea? That need to talk isn’t going anywhere. Give them the space to talk and share. Then let them know that you are interested in hearing about it. If your kid is into sports, know the players and stats. If your kid is into art, know about their favorite artists and their styles. If your kid is into science, know what moons of Jupiter they are studying. If your kid is into music, know the names of the songs your kid is listening to. In other words, get to know what they are into. Your kid will love that you are interested in what they love.
2. Be their rock when they need one.
Kids need a rock that they can always come back to when times are tough. You’ve been there through thick and thin, and you’ve never given up on them. You’ve held their hands when they fell down and gotten them back up again. You’ve wiped away their tears, and you’ve pushed them to be better than they are today. If your kid is having a bad day, be their rock. If your kid isn’t fitting in, be their rock. If your kid is sick, be their rock. If your kid is failing a class, be their rock. If your kid is going through a rough breakup, be their rock. If your kid is getting bullied, be their rock. If your kid is having a hard time at work, be their rock. If your kid is struggling with their sexuality, be their rock. If your kid is struggling with their identity, be their rock. If your kid is struggling with their faith, be their rock. If your kid has just broken up with a best friend, be their rock. If your kid just broke up with a boyfriend or girlfriend, be their rock. If your kid is just going through a hard time, be their rock. If your kid is struggling with the fact that they are growing up, be their rock. If your kid is going to be late for school, be their rock. Be their rock when they need you to be.
3. Surprise them with your awesomeness from time to Don’t nag, scold or criticize.
Kids don’t want to be around someone who is always telling them what they are doing wrong. They don’t want to be around someone who points out the faults in their work, who nags them to do their chores, or who criticizes them for forgetting to do something. Kids want to be around someone who builds them up, who tells them what they are doing right, who helps them see their potential, and who believes in them when they don’t believe in themselves. Surprise your kids with your awesomeness from time to time. Don’t nag, scold or criticize. Instead, build them up, encourage them, and show them how great they are. Your kid will love the difference this makes in their lives.
4. Help them discover who they are and what they love.
Your kid will become the adult they want to become when they know who they are, what they love, and what they are good at. Help your kids discover who they are and what they love. This will make all the difference in the world to them. Help them discover what they are good at. Help them find the things they love. Help them discover what lights them up. If they are in high school, help them discover what they might want to do as a career. If they are in college, help them discover what they might want to study. Make sure they have opportunities to discover what they love. Take them to museums and art exhibits. Take them to concerts and sporting events. Take them to explore new places. Take them to explore the things they love.
Conclusion
The time goes by so quickly, and before you know it, your kids will be grown and out of the house. Before that happens, you need to make your kid fall in love with you again. Take the time to get to know them, to explore their interests, and to discover who they are and what they love. Do this, and you’ll be well on your way to getting your kids to fall in love with you again and again and again.
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